Ask Anything on Sidechat | What do I even do anymore? I’m chill & nice but don’t think I’m attractive enough to approach girls so I don’t.Almost 21, a virgin, had my first kiss at 20. I’ve lied to friends about girls bc in reality I’m left on read or delivered just for saying hi 😔

Sidechat

Download

Join communities on Sidechat Download

Ask Anything 3d

What do I even do anymore? I’m chill & nice but don’t think I’m attractive enough to approach girls so I don’t.Almost 21, a virgin, had my first kiss at 20. I’ve lied to friends about girls bc in reality I’m left on read or delivered just for saying hi 😔

Anonymous 3d

honestly bro as long as it's the right person doesn't matter how long it takes

Anonymous 3d

If you keep not approaching girls then nothing will change you can’t avoid them and expect them to want you

Anonymous 3d

A lack of confidence reflects outward. If you don’t believe in your own worth or attractiveness, that energy comes through when you interact with people as cliché as it is

Anonymous

#1 3d

Thank you brother

Anonymous

#2 3d

Well when I do approach them the convo goes well and they offer their snap or IG etc but then the next day or week I text them it’s read or delivered

Anonymous

OP 3d

🫶

Anonymous

#3 3d

No you’re right that is true, I do need to work on that a lot, I have such little confidence in myself and it really holds me back. Any tips that have worked for you?

Anonymous

OP 3d

easier said than done but just stop worrying about what other people think, you don't need to prove anything just do your thing, others opinions are insignificant in the marathon of life

Anonymous

#1 2d

Wow that was poetic 😂 But seriously thank you

Anonymous

OP 2d

🫶