
yeah, most people aren’t. it’s the crowd ur around or the ppl that catch ur eye first even when observing randomly. who knows if u have some bias when choosing who ur observing interact? that’s a big swooping assumption for “most” girls 😭 some may care a lot abt their looks but might have a very diff personality or be more more down to earth when u actually talk to them. or maybe ur catching them interacting w someone else who’s way of speaking/acting influences them in the moment…