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What are some top signs someone is an avoidant when it comes to getting to know someone when looking for a relationship.
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They….they avoid you/relationships/intimacy/things relating to securing the relationship further

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it can be more subtle. they may still be spending time with you and expressing that they want to, but they feel distant. you say “us,” you can see them tense up. they may express fear that they could hurt you. avoidants are scared of being trapped

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