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why are people so comfortable with being mean to those who have done NOTHING to them
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Anonymous 13w

because they are sad and angry hope this helps

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Anonymous 13w

Egocentrism and rationalization mostly. Plus a healthy sprinkling of selfishness

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Anonymous 13w

People often think they did nothing wrong, if people r being mean there’s probably a reason

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

No. I'm talking about situations where I'm a complete stranger and I get people constantly giving me snark looks and talking crap about anything they can think of. Clearly, I haven't done anything wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

There isn't always a "reason" for someone being mean. Especially when one hasn't interacted with them once.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Maybe ur over thinking it and they aren’t even giving u snarky looks

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

My experience isn't for you to dismiss. I saw it with my own eyes, you can't invalidate anyone's experience because no two people have lived the exact same lives.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Plus why are you trying so hard to defend people's rudeness? Not cool.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

I’m just confused cuz if they r complete strangers giving u weird looks the only thing i can think of is ur doing something weird to make people give u those looks😭

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