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1. I need girl advice 2. We’ve been going on dates and hanging out multiple times a week for three months. 3. She just got out of an abusive relationship. 4. I’ve known her forever 5. We haven’t kissed yet or defined the relationship. I like her,help
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Anonymous 4w

Ask her what she wants and how she feels about relationships generally rn. As long as you’re not pushy whatever you have now will survive or upgrade

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Anonymous 4w

Gotta find out if you’re just a space filler or an actual prospect

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Anonymous 4w

you should just initiate bro

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Anonymous 4w

How long ago did she get out of the abusive relationship

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Anonymous 4w

Just try and define what you guys are to start. If she’s really your friend, she will be honest and kind when you open up. That doesn’t mean she will say yes.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Three months

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yes def give her time n be extra gentle with her. She’s probably terrified she’ll go through it all over again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

Second this. It can take people a very long time to process and get over an abusive situation. Give her time and prioritize being a supportive friend for her right now!!

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