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I’m 24 female and my Social anxiety is absolutely ruining my life I can’t do anything alone and I can’t make friends so I sit at home all day wishing I had the courage to leave it’s so debilitating any advice
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Anonymous 5w

My advice honestly is to get a job or sign up for a class with a hobby you like. Getting a job around people has made me open up and I enjoy talking to my coworkers and the people that come through my job. With the hobbies I love throwing pottery or doing something crafty. Your city might have a craft club that’s usually only women and it’s been really helpful for me

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Anonymous 5w

My job really helped me open up and meet new people. I still have social anxiety but at least now I have friends lol

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Anonymous 5w

If you have even one person in your life, tell them. Ask them to help you, to introduce you to people you might like and to drag you out of the house when you don’t want to. Ask them to bug you with texts and tell you about their plans. Most people love to help their friends in their vulnerabilities.

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Anonymous 5w

Force yourself to get out in small increments. Walks to clear your head. Have a good friend listen to you. A t especially a smaller breed dog chihuahua, dachshund, toy fox terrier etc are great to build relationships with

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Anonymous 5w

Same but I’m 22

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Anonymous 5w

Start small. Just try to spend outside in the fresh air. People are (generally speaking) not the monsters they are portrayed as on the internet. Something about being outside during the day, around a few people, they tend to act in a goal oriented manner.

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Anonymous 5w

my job changed my life! opened up, made friends, and boyfriend:)

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Anonymous 5w

Go to the same place every day, maybe you like a drink at a local coffee shop or a spot to sit and study at the libray, if you become a regular people will get to know your name and it makes life a lot easier when you recognize people’s faces

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

Also just getting out of the house in increments. Going on walks helped me open up even if it was just by myself. Getting some fresh air made me want to talk to people and start doing things. I also go to the pool at my apartment and have made friends that way just by talking to the people I’m swimming with

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