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I was really horny last time I saw my bf and I asked him to finger me while I was on my period and he seemed so disgusted and he said he’s just scared of blood and it makes him woozy is that a red flag at all and how do guys view this is it gross ?
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Anonymous 13h

Well if it’s just blood that freaks him out how tf is that a red flag? Sounds like ur a red flag bbg

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Anonymous 13h

My girl respects my boundaries, you’re a red flag

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Anonymous 11h

if he was disgusted by the existence of your period then yeah that’s a red flag. it really just sounds like he has a fear of blood though, you can’t fault someone for that

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Anonymous 13h

Well I think is normal…. We guys are pretty ignorant about things and is good to know more things … just mentioning it to him that is good to have sex during period … that has a lot of benefits for you

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Anonymous 12h

I mean he shouldn’t have seemed disgusted, but I personally don’t see fearing blood as a red flag. His reaction was a red flag for sure, but you should talk to him about how his reaction made you feel. A boundary is a boundary tho, that’s why we have toys 📳🕹️

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Anonymous 8h

idk some guys are different my ex liked fucking on my period

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13h

Sorry we’re in a tough spot rn so I’m like on edge and really anxious and was just curious

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

Lmao, don’t lump all dudes with you. If he doesn’t wanna do it when you’re on your period don’t force it. Some guys might see it as gross and others might not.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13h

Never thought it was a big deal lol… I never have a talk about this 😂😂 I guess some people are okay and other not but I really don’t tho n is a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 12h

Wait why was his reaction a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 11h

This, exactly. He’s not going oooooh woman body yucky, he’s just freaked out by blood, which is very fair.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

I only see it as a red flag because it relates to your body and can make you feel like he finds you disgusting and not blood. He could’ve not reacted that way, although idk how you felt or how strong his reaction was lol it’s like a teeny tiny red flag imo

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