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Should you date a kinda weird girl with not a lot of friends
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Anonymous 3w

I find they are the most interesting and if it doesn’t go anywhere then they may be fine with just being friends.

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Anonymous 3w

Most likely no. In my experience, friendless people are friendless for a reason. Even shy people tend to have a few close friends. So are they friendless because they have crippling social anxiety? How will that affect you if you’re extroverted and like to go out? Or are they friendless because they’re a piece of shit and no one will stick around? I don’t want to bother figuring it out since I’m very social and unfortunately past experience has taught me to stop trying to help the outcasts.

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Anonymous 3w

Why not? You're not fucking her friends. Nor should you care if she has friends

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah

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Anonymous 3w

Idk man do you LIKE her?

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Anonymous 3w

If you’re planning that, be prepared to get accustomed to a bunch of niche interests and hobbies she’d wanna show and yap about. Also, if you “get lucky”… I wish you luck 🫡

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

bro didn’t say friendless said not a lot of friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

I don’t have a lot of friends BY CHOICE. I’m not shy nor introverted, people always ask me to hang out. I don’t hang out with just anyone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I read it as friendless. But either way that would be a deal breaker for some. I love going out and meeting new people or spending time with fun groups. If you are only interested in hanging out with the same few people then we wouldn’t mesh yk? Like I love my best friends of 15+ years but I also love the friends I’ve met more recently and even seeing my more casual party friends is nice!

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 3w

People you have chemistry with is rare, if you like them go for it. Having a few friends could be for different reasons like being picky about who they surround themselves with. Weird means they’re authentic and are more likely to accept your imperfections. These people are great imo

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