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this time of year sucks when you don’t have a family to spend it with
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Anonymous 2d

Wya fam, you don’t have to be alone 🫂

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Anonymous 3d

I hope one day you find the peace of finding comfort with yourself. Sometimes we’re all we need 💜

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Anonymous 2d

I’m sorry 🫂 can you find social christmas events to go to? I went to a free open mic christmas story time. I didn’t get to go to my family this year but I’ll have my memory made from the event i went to surrounded by others from the weekend before from this story time. Maybe you could host a christmas themed get together (maybe an adult silent read) at your local library or volunteer and visit a nursing home with treats (call ahead)

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Anonymous 2d

Well at least spend time in the community

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Anonymous 3d

At least your single

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

no, stop spreading this bullshit, it's not fucking true.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

All of this is for next year for you, but the worst thing you can do for yourself is isolate yourself, but their are ways to mitigate and compromise with yourself if you want to work around being alone during the holiday. Maybe you can’t plan anything day of, but maybe the weekend before or after you can and that can be your christmas.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

I know it sucks but a lot of people are lonely this time of year, I’m sure you have a lot of people in your area struggling in the same way and maybe you can plan things together. There’s a site called meetup that people will post events and their social groups and maybe you could think up something to start :)

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