
As a guy who used to do ts in middle school. It’s more of like a game, we really want to tell you but we’re more or less protecting ourselves from saying it outright. I agree now it’s something we should mature out of by highschool but I’m sure there are a multitude of guys who still do
gonna put a contrarian take out there and say that you are not the victim here. guys develop feelings for women and yall aren’t always easy to read. in fact, that this has happened “so many” times with you makes it seem like perhaps you pick up on those feelings, try to prolong “the chase” as long as possible because it makes you feel a perverse sense of power, and then when they finally spill their heart out to you, you play the surprised victim who “just wanted to be friends”