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Do people actually ask consent of their partners? Even for first kisses I feel like vibes and body language has always been sufficient. I’m curious and interested in other perspectives
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Anonymous 5w

For kissing, no, that's usually pretty obvious ime. For sex all it takes is a quick "You okay with this?" to be sure and that is very worth it

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Anonymous 5w

I do but that’s because I’m a very nervous person and I’m terrified I’d pressure them. But also I ca be kinda oblivious so it’s extra reassurance

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Anonymous 5w

I always have everyone I’ve been with seemed to like it :)

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Anonymous 5w

Yes my partner and I do. Even when we include extras or do poly stuff. We’ve both gotten at least one person that’s been shocked by us asking. Then confused why we reminded them to tell us if anything bothers them.

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Anonymous 5w

I hope the fuck not

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