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Please give me advice. My bf and I are breaking up and it feels like my whole life is crashing down. It’s been almost 4 years and it feels like my world is falling apart what do I do please
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Anonymous 15h

God has a bigger plan for you. You are made in his image to be in relationship with him who loves perfectly, not like the flawed love of a boyfriend. I know it probably feels like your life is shattered but suffering produces endurance and endurance produces character. You got this. Ephesians 2:1-10

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Anonymous 14h

I’d lean heavily on your family and friends, even if you feel like you haven’t been as close to them recently as you would have liked to be. Relationships, especially troubled ones, will do that but people are forgiving. Personally I’m not religious and wouldn’t recommend prayer or anything, action helped me. Find something you’re passionate about that you can get involved with. Volunteering helped me feel good about myself and not hyperfixate on the relationship I’d lost.

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Anonymous 15h

Don’t wrap yourself up in him that you lose sight of your own goals, your own ambitions. It’s still your life and God is going to use it for something far greater than you ca comprehend

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

That and exercise, long runs or bike rides or even walks or hikes are a great way to clear your head and feel good in your body.

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