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Met a front desk guy of a place i go, like we always made small talk. I got drunk, found his Insta, followed him — and got no follow back. Thought he was flirting and it kinda hurt. Now I’m overthinking if it’s weird and if I should keep going back
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Anonymous 13w

we had no mutuals so maybe he thought it was weird? i guess im relatively attractive so its hard to take this as rejection

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Anonymous 13w

I would keep acting normal when you see him again/still talk like usual. If he doesn’t follow back after a week or 2 just unfollow and pretend it never happened 😂 it doesn’t need to affect the way you interacted before

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Anonymous 13w

That's what you get jumping the gun doing something you really shouldn't have. You should've been sure he liked you before you did all that

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Anonymous 13w

are you sure he knows it was you?

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Anonymous 13w

this sounds like a valid thing to do & he just seems immature

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

i mean i have like a million pics of me posted and he knows my name when i check in at the desk 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

how long has it been since you followed him?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

since yesterday, but he posted a story so he def was online

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

that’s true i was just drunk and got confident 😭 def regretted it this morning

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