Anonymous #1 14h

how soft we talking

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Anonymous #2 12h

what r some examples, i’m trynna see sum?

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Anonymous #3 12h

i personally feel like we have a lot of chemistry and we definitely have a lot of history it’s different between us there’s a lot of silent stares and unsaid words but for starters he didn’t tell me he had a girlfriend, been actin weird lately, wants me close to him but far at the same time it’s just too much!

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Anonymous OP 12h

wait does he have a girlfriend and just decided not to tell you 🤨🤨

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Anonymous #3 12h

bro yes so i’m not crazy right the only reason i know he has one is bc her instagram popped up in my suggested

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Anonymous OP 12h

it sounds like he might be conflicted and it could 100% be that thing where someone is catching feelings but doesn't want to ruin the relationship but also wants something more from the relationship than smth platonic

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Anonymous #3 12h

i originally thought that but he had an opportunity to tell me i told him last yr how i felt about him but maybe i shouldn’t have said i didn’t want it to change our friendship i meant it in the sense of i always want us to be close literally been by eachothers side sense grade school we go way back we have been thru so much shit to only come this far which is the only reason i haven’t called it quits cause i love him but i love myself more so i have taken a few steps back

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Anonymous #3 12h

and then he literally said a few months ago he sent me a meme in like jan 2026 that said “if i sent you this i’m either in your house or i fw you heavy” like wtf does that mean. mind you he has been taken unbeknownst to me since oct 2025

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Anonymous OP 11h

not telling you is so wild but also def can be added to the case of him having feelings the only reason i can think of for why you don't tell someone after knowing them for a long ass time is cause of that

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Anonymous OP 11h

case concluded bro that's the biggest sign lmao sending someone one of those is so so so on the nose

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Anonymous #3 11h

it was so unprovoked he sent it during one of our quiet periods. i texted him for new years we chopped it up a little, then i gave him space then 2 weeks later he sends that i fw you heavy shit it caught me off guard but then 2-3 weeks after that meme unprovoked AGAIN he proceeded to send me a tiktok that said “ik you burning but you forever my sister” yea that sent me into a spiral 😭😩

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Anonymous OP 10h

what the fuuuck that's so wild i would have to say with utmost confidence that your bsf it 100% catching feelings if not completely caught

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Anonymous #3 10h

That’s what I was saying I was confused I would be lying if I said I wasn’t anymore just not as much as I was before! Even though he has gf which I completely respect, I just wonder why he won’t say it, he’s doing everything BUT communicating.

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Anonymous OP 10h

he might be doing the thing that men do sometimes when they don't know if they'll be able to get the person they want. sometimes they won't let go of their current partner to persue another one until they're 100% sure and so they'll do this annoying ass waffling dance where they don't say it but they'll hint at it and it makes me wanna rip out my hair

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Anonymous #3 10h

no that’s the current state i’m in beside replaying the same song over and over while looking at the ceiling, i’m peaceful now mainly, you should’ve seen me the last 3 months i just wonder from time to time why some men fucking act like that bro 😭🤦🏽‍♀️—- also i really appreciate your insight it does make me look at the situation from different perspectives

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Anonymous OP 9h

yeah absolutely 🫡 i hope you're able to make yourself peace bc this shit would drive me up a wall lol

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Anonymous #3 9h

i ran head first into the damn wall when all this happened i had my lil crashout now i’m calm like so calm, this is probably concerning ngl🤣

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Anonymous #3 9h

have a good summer and thanks for coming to my ted talk i love u #3 whoever you are, ranting has made me feel better ahhhh i think i’m healing ❤️❤️

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Anonymous #4 53m

It’s one of those things where it’s like I love him so much I genuinely want him to be happy even if we can’t be together right now. Not right now doesn’t mean never. If life is teaching me anything right now it’s to have patience, however that doesn’t mean I’m sitting around waiting and hoping, I’m moving on. If we meant to be we will be❤️‍🩹

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