Maybe you’re looking in the wrong places. I’d suggest going to places where you’ll find your type. Go to museums to find thoughtful men, comic shops to find nerdy, sport events to find sporty men. The antique store method is also undefeated. Go to places where you are the most “you”. That’ll help you find your counterpart!

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Focus on self care, being your best self and they will come flocking soon enough

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Most of the time the answer here is your standards aren’t aligned with your current market value or current market offerings

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It’s literally so easy unless you live in a super rural area or ur chopped

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All they want is sex and someone out there is giving them that.

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It’s best to find a hook up first. You can get to know them while they are on top of you.

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