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Is it grounds to break up if you’ve been together for 2 years and not had sex
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Anonymous 16h

have you... talked about that?

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Anonymous 16h

If you’re not patient enough to wait that long yes you should find someone you’re sexually compatible with

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Anonymous 14h

As someone who was broken up for for that exact reason and now looks back and wishes I could rewrite history as the break up has changed so much about me that even my closest friends don’t recognize me anymore… you should really talk to them about why

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Anonymous 15h

I mean if you care that much you seem incompatible anyway. It really depends on the specific people but if it bothers you that much ig yeah, break up

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Anonymous 10h

You should talk about it. Me and my partner have been together for two years and I made them wait until I was ready. I had planned on waiting until marriage but I changed my mind. However, we were and still are an extremely and healthy couple before and after. If your partner is religious or has gone through sa/grape then just be patient because it can be hard to be ready. If you love them, then I would advise to just keep being patient and maybe talk a little more about your future.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11h

It’s less that being the specific reason and more like is it telling that the relationship won’t be successful

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11h

You sound like you’ve made up your mind. Whatever you do, good luck and be kind

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

If my man came to me prior to the break up and said our lack of sex life is really hurting me and I would really like to fix it instead of just leaving without communicating, I would have gone to sex therapy for him. I’m encouraging you to talk to your girl because maybe, like me she has trauma, and is just scared and simply doesn’t know how to relax and be open

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