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Is it wrong to ghost a hookup? It was good but it didn’t go great in a way and idk if I wanna see them again. But I don’t have a replacement yet
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Anonymous 4w

you should just send a super quick message explaining that you didn’t click and won’t be seeing them more, it doesn’t have to be much but i think they have a right to know that you’re not interested so you’re not wasting their time

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Anonymous 5w

yes, it’s wrong to ghost anybody about anything

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

Fair, I mean I’ll probably talk to them till I have a new person lined up then I’ll let them down or ignore them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Or just be a normal person and tell them that you don’t want to anymore

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You sound like a high school kid

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5w

I could change my mind

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

don’t even have a replacement, it’s not fair to anyone for you to keep someone in your life who you don’t really want

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

If you could change your mind, then the person does not deserve to be ghosted.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

I’ll half ghost them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I still don’t think they deserve to be ghosted at all. Idk what half ghosting is (I assume only replying and not reaching out first). But you do you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

Essentially, keeping them in enough they don’t leave but far enough they don’t wanna talk all the time

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