some people consider watching other people fucking to be the same as wishing you were fucking those people. I don't agree, but if both people in a relationship feel that way, it makes sense to consider it disrespectful.

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I like to think of it from a more factual standpoint since there have been a lot of studies over the years on the effects of watching porn and it’s been linked to declining mental health and a lack of self control and sexual satisfaction. There have also been a lot of cases where people who watch porn are more likely to be aggressive or develop some form of anxiety/depression. When you look at all the negative impacts you would think you wouldn’t need to keep watching it if you had a partner

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