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what do you do when u catch your boyfriend watching porn for the 1182737 time after repeatedly telling him to stop? (he said he would stop the last time it happened btw)

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Anonymous 5w

Either learn to be fine with it or move on.. He’s gotta want to stop for himself.

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Anonymous 5w

It’s an addiction.

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Anonymous 5w

Leave, if you’ve repeatedly asked him to quit and he hasn’t then he’s not respecting u. Porn is an addiction but he should be trying to find other ways to get it up, simply put

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Anonymous 5w

Yeah babe, just dump him. It’s yuck and gross that he does it and can’t stop, give him a hot line and leave

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Anonymous 5w

Leave. Stop babying these “men”. You shouldn’t have to tell him to stop in the first place let alone multiple times. He doesn’t respect you or the relationship

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Anonymous 5w

Take him to a therapist that’s an addiction

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Anonymous 4w

Bro has a GF and is still watching porn? That’s enrages me. It’s like a spoiled kid getting an Apollo Super Dragon sports car and still playing Asphalt 8. If you’re not going to enjoy her then what’s the point. This is actually raising my blood pressure NGL

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Anonymous 5w

#mormon problems

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Anonymous 5w

#Breakup

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Anonymous 5w

You already know what you have to do, the only reason you are asking random internet strangers is to hide away from what you gotta do, dump him you deserve better

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Anonymous 5w

Make an ultimatum

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Anonymous 5w

It’s time to break free. He doesn’t respect you at all.

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Anonymous 4w

girl i get how bad it hurts, ive been in your shoes. but he just gave you the answer you need. respect yourself more than the shitty treatment he is giving you. you deserve better🤍

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Anonymous 4w

he’s disrespecting you. leave

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Anonymous 5w

Say “In the name of the one true God, Jesus Christ, may the demons be cast from your flesh to return back to the pit.” Then leave the room. Sometimes it takes awhile. Depending on how fast the process takes, you may want to be gone for longer than a day. If it takes too long, break up with him, but it will break enough of a pattern he should get the picture you’re serious and he needs to stop uploading digital succubus into his brain to take attention away from you, his future wife (possibly).

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Anonymous 5w

oh wow

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Anonymous 4w

Sounds like he’s addicted like so many others. It needs to be his decision to stop, but that may only happen if he has to navigate real world consequences. Maybe sharing with him that it’s hard for you to be intimate with him when you know he’s been viewing pornography. You end up feeling inadequate and put off. If he has acknowledged it as a problem for HIM and not for you, then try to set up a system of accountability and trust around the act. Try to get him to share when he gets the urge etc

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Anonymous 5w

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous

#4 5w

already have, he didn’t respect it I guess

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Anonymous

OP 5w

so you have your answer there...

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Anonymous

#8 5w

I say AMEN

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Anonymous

#8 5w

if you're doing a bit, it's very funny. if not, you have schizophrenia

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Anonymous

#5 5w

I can do both. Let me multitask.

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Anonymous

#8 5w

don't let me stop you

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Anonymous

#18 4w

also i want to add that it is NOT your responsibility to fix him. a lot of the comments say to take him to a therapist, but it isn't your responsibility to make him treat you good.

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Anonymous

#2 4w

What’s funny

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Anonymous

#19 4w

How women act about porn now

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Anonymous

#2 4w

Why is that funny. If you got a gf why are you watching porn. No good reason and it damages you psychologically

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Anonymous

#19 4w

No it doesn't. IDK where y'all got that silly shit from

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Anonymous

#19 4w

Your gf ain't always at home. I would have no problem with my bf watching porn if I couldn't get to him. Watching porn isn't cheating to me. Some psycho females call that shit cheating when it isn't. Cheating is when a man sticks his dick in someone else physically

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Anonymous

#2 4w

Prob from thousands of scientific research papers 💀💀💀 if you uneducated that’s ok you can say so

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Anonymous

#19 4w

IDGAFF about any of that. When you're taught what it's supposed to do for you. Compared to men taking it to an unhealthy level

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Anonymous

#19 4w

I'm about to end this convo. We'll agree to disagree. I'm not in the mood for the silly convo this is about to turn into

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Anonymous

#2 4w

How would you feel if your bf watched another person have sex? It’s gross, if it’s one of her things she doesn’t like then that’s her choice, but porn is watching people have sex. People have been tricked into thinking that just because it’s behind a screen it’s okay. But it’s not that different, a lot of women are exploited for porn and it’s disgusting that you think it’s some silly little conversation when there’s hundreds of studies showing that watching it messes with your brain.

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Anonymous

#10 4w

Can confirm. Used to do OF. Studied the industry deeply. Even the most vanilla stuff has an immensely negative butterfly effect. It won’t kill you to watch porn but, it’s certainly a dark path for both people producing it and consuming it.

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Anonymous

#10 4w

I can see it messing with yourbrain if you're some weak ass tulip. We'll agree to disagree. Those people fucking aren't there in the room. Y'all are silly AF. MEANWHILE y'all will eat out someone's ass GTFOH

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Anonymous

#2 4w

Is it possible you prefer your boyfriend seeking out women who would be normally unobtainable to him because it means he’s less likely to ever leave you and you’re scarred of losing him because then you’ll be alone… with your own mindset… that from the outside looking in, appears to be very negative?

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Anonymous

#8 4w

All that shit you typed sounds psycho AF. Uhh no I've NEVER thought that way about porn. This is why a call you women PSYCHO. You're seriously overthinking porn making it more than what it is

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Anonymous

#8 4w

I know I typed we need to agree to disagree. This discussion is no longer with my time

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Anonymous

#8 4w

*worth

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Anonymous 4w

Really? Yeah you just know I'm lonely on a phone. Take that stupid wanna be insulting bullshit somewhere else

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Anonymous

#2 4w

That wasn’t a sentence.

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Anonymous 4w

#2 has a tough road ahead of her. We don’t need to call her weird. Eventually she’s going to need a hug and a friend to talk to so, let’s try not to isolate her.

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Anonymous

#18 4w

i had a friend who lived with a dude who was addicted to porn and then it became spending money on onlyfans. lots of money. so save your funds and break free

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