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I’m a girl, going on a date with another girl. We’re keeping things casual, going to the movies, and we aren’t planning to actually date (FWB). She planned the whole thing and is picking me up and paying for everything. Do I buy flowers or something???
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Anonymous 14w

I’d say maybe buy like a desert or flowers or make something “special” happen after or during the movie ?

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Anonymous 14w

FWB but u want to buy flowers? just plan the next date

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Anonymous 14w

I'd bring her maybe some flowers or maybe like if yk her fave drink & snack, you could get those for the movie

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Anonymous 14w

Also random and doesn’t matter but I block a lot of weirdos on this app and I blocked whoever you talked to 😭

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Anonymous 14w

flowers.

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Anonymous 14w

Single flower. Simple. Put time into finding a great one. And that makes it more special. IMO. 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 14w

i always buy my girls flowers.

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Anonymous 14w

She better be taking you to see spiderman.

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Anonymous 14w

Idk seems pretty gay

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Anonymous 14w

Who came up with it being FWB? It sounds like she has feelings and itsnt sure

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Anonymous 14w

Why not? It would be a nice gesture

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Ok! What do you mean by special? I don’t think I would be able to buy anything during the movie because she’s making it very clear that she won’t let me spend it dime during the date 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I will also add that this is one of my first dates, so I have no idea what I’m doing lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I mean like kiss her or idk end with her and you going back to your place and having “adult hugs “

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

Ah, I see. Idk, I’ve never done anything like that before, so idk if I’d want to do it on the first date? It’s mostly to see if we’re compatible ig. I’m fine with kissing, but I’ve only kissed a person twice before and idk if I’d be good at it 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

Oh dang 😬

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Don’t do that, that’s just putting out. It’s totally okay and normal to feel nervous about something so new, especially if it’s a situation where you are both aware you have some sort of feelings for eachother. Allow yourself and her to feel nervous, trust me it will bring comfort in a really strange way. If she is insisting that she gives you the whole experience and you don’t have to do anything then you really don’t, just go have fun.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

If you still feel obligated to do something in return do something small and/or cheap like bake her something before she gets there or find a rock and put googly eyes on it and give her like a cute little pet rock or something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

SHE ISSSSSSS AHHH IM SO EXCITED

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

She's not a spiderman/marvel fan, but I ended up going on a small tangent about Spiderman and the new movie, so she said she’ll take me to see it lol- we were originally gonna watch ether sinners in the park on her laptop (picnic) or The Odyssey

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

Yesssss I’m going tonight so hyped. The odyssey was solid though too 👌

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Yessss I think it would have been too long for a first date though. It’s like- almost 3 hours long lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 14w

Idk, I’ve never been on a date before 😭😭 or any kind of relationship before 💀💀 idk what I’m doing lowkey

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

Definitely the second gayest thing I’d ever done for sure

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Wait, stop… I don’t think Spider-Man is out yet where I am

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Anonymous 14w

Well it’s too bad I don’t believe in all that🤷🏾‍♀️ respect to you and your religion, but don’t push all ts on me, idk you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

LMFAO

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Anonymous 14w

if this is a shitpost, it is incredible

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Anonymous 14w

You really think your god is going to accept your rude behavior? When you don’t get your way, you result to insults? I did not give any negative reply, yet you reply with hate and harassment. I’m sure your god is disappointed that his believer is choosing to spread hate. Good luck dealing with your eternal punishment or whatever 🤷🏾‍♀️

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Anonymous 14w

And I pray you get your act together and learn love and respect before you’re pushed for lack of. Don’t disrespect people and not expect karma back. You’ll get what’s coming to you, don’t you worry.

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Anonymous 14w

Aisha was 9. Mohammed was a pedophile. There are over 150 contradictions in the qur’an. Islam is the only major religion to treat women as second class citizens. Islam is the only modern religion that inshrines murder, rape, and to pillage those who disagree with it. Islam is quantifiably responsible for over 95% of modern day terrorism. Muslims are roughly 3x more likely to be violent criminals compared to non Muslims. Allah is no god of mine. Stop spreading hate to this poor girl.

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Anonymous 14w

😭 literally no one worships Epstein. And you just admitted to your profit being a pedophile. Islam is a joke of a religion and a stain on humanity.

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Anonymous 14w

I would rather be called an infidel by every Muslim on Earth than worship a pedophile.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

All of you guys on this thread are beyond ret*rded. All of you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

okay how did we lose the plot this bad

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

Literally. Total wastes of human life in here

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

Nah cus I stopped replying 😭😭 literally started with me asking for advice for a date and it turned into this 💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

How was the date and movie bro

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

My bad dawg I thought I was defending you

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14w

No you’re set bro, thank you for that!!! Just got tired of the back and forth haha. People like #12 don’t deserve the time yk?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

I totally get it lol. I got carried away a little my b.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 14w

It lowkey started off so good, but went downhill during the movie. She talked nonstop on max volume throughout the entire movie, took a phone call, and put her hands down my shirt????. Everything was just way too much and it was overwhelming/frustrating 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

oh man I’m sorry that’s a shitty person

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14w

Yeah, the whole date was just odd and uncomfortable. I’m definitely not having a second one haha

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