Ask Anything on Sidechat | I’m a girl, going on a date with another girl. We’re keeping things casual, going to the movies, and we aren’t planning to actually date (FWB). She planned the whole thing and is picking me up and paying for everything. Do I buy flowers or something???

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Ask Anything 22h

I’m a girl, going on a date with another girl. We’re keeping things casual, going to the movies, and we aren’t planning to actually date (FWB). She planned the whole thing and is picking me up and paying for everything. Do I buy flowers or something???

Anonymous 22h

I’d say maybe buy like a desert or flowers or make something “special” happen after or during the movie ?

Anonymous 19h

FWB but u want to buy flowers? just plan the next date

Anonymous 20h

I'd bring her maybe some flowers or maybe like if yk her fave drink & snack, you could get those for the movie

Anonymous 22h

Also random and doesn’t matter but I block a lot of weirdos on this app and I blocked whoever you talked to 😭

Anonymous 20h

flowers.

Anonymous 19h

She better be taking you to see spiderman.

Anonymous 18h

Idk seems pretty gay

Anonymous 17h

i always buy my girls flowers.

Anonymous 5h

Single flower. Simple. Put time into finding a great one. And that makes it more special. IMO. 🤷‍♀️

Anonymous

#1 22h

Ok! What do you mean by special? I don’t think I would be able to buy anything during the movie because she’s making it very clear that she won’t let me spend it dime during the date 😭

Anonymous

OP 22h

I will also add that this is one of my first dates, so I have no idea what I’m doing lol

Anonymous

OP 22h

I mean like kiss her or idk end with her and you going back to your place and having “adult hugs “

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Anonymous

#1 22h

Ah, I see. Idk, I’ve never done anything like that before, so idk if I’d want to do it on the first date? It’s mostly to see if we’re compatible ig. I’m fine with kissing, but I’ve only kissed a person twice before and idk if I’d be good at it 😭😭😭

Anonymous

#2 21h

Oh dang 😬

Anonymous

OP 19h

Don’t do that, that’s just putting out. It’s totally okay and normal to feel nervous about something so new, especially if it’s a situation where you are both aware you have some sort of feelings for eachother. Allow yourself and her to feel nervous, trust me it will bring comfort in a really strange way. If she is insisting that she gives you the whole experience and you don’t have to do anything then you really don’t, just go have fun.

Anonymous

#5 19h

If you still feel obligated to do something in return do something small and/or cheap like bake her something before she gets there or find a rock and put googly eyes on it and give her like a cute little pet rock or something.

Anonymous

#6 19h

SHE ISSSSSSS AHHH IM SO EXCITED

Anonymous

OP 19h

She's not a spiderman/marvel fan, but I ended up going on a small tangent about Spiderman and the new movie, so she said she’ll take me to see it lol- we were originally gonna watch ether sinners in the park on her laptop (picnic) or The Odyssey

Anonymous

OP 19h

Yesssss I’m going tonight so hyped. The odyssey was solid though too 👌

Anonymous

#6 19h

Yessss I think it would have been too long for a first date though. It’s like- almost 3 hours long lol

Anonymous

#7 19h

Idk, I’ve never been on a date before 😭😭 or any kind of relationship before 💀💀 idk what I’m doing lowkey

Anonymous

#8 17h

Definitely the second gayest thing I’d ever done for sure

Anonymous

#6 11h

Wait, stop… I don’t think Spider-Man is out yet where I am