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Ask Anything 2w
update: he wanted nothing and did in fact just lead me on and that was worse than any breakup i’ve experienced.
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Ask Anything 3w
someone answer this. What does it mean when a guy puts a lot of effort into you and is always texting u and wants to hangout with you a lot but then acts like it’s just a hookup and if i bring up just hanging out i seem crazy?
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Anonymous 2w

Give me his number and I’ll send him a random text saying that he was listed as a potential STI transmission at the local clinic and he needs to get tested asap

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Anonymous 2w

That was the level of effort he was willing to bring to get what he wants, and the level of effort he was willing to bring to give you what you want. You were right to notice the imbalance and be concerned. Look up love bombing, and stay strong.

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Anonymous 2w

Men do this all the time. You're late

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Anonymous replying to -> notyourprofsprof 2w

You know I always wonder why people need a word explaining something that's happening to them. Like I need a word to help me understand what's happening. Like this stupid new word of love bombing. There's no way I need a word to explain what's happening. It just happened. Men have been "love bombing" before that stupid ass made up word came into play

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Specific terminology, if accurate, allows people to share experiences, resources, and learn from each other.

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Anonymous replying to -> notyourprofsprof 2w

How'd I know I'll get this rebuttal? I swear you people act like robots. Uh no it doesn't. What happened to you is what happened to you. I'm not people. But I'm learning more everyday. People are god-damned idiots. It's rare to find one of the smart ones

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Whatever you went through, I’m sorry, it’s just also not an excuse to invalidate others.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

oh like rude but stay strong queen

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Anonymous replying to -> notyourprofsprof 2w

It's not invalidating when it's the truth

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Whatever you are. Well maybe this is your first rodeo

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