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what do men think of virgins?
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Anonymous 2w

Very honorable

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Anonymous 2w

Meh, who cares. If we’re getting together then I want there to be calm and cautious first time.

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Anonymous 2w

Self-controlled.

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Anonymous 2w

Honorable

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Anonymous 2w

What I am looking for in every way. Not in a creepy way. But a self controlled, responsible, respectful of her body, gentle woman who isn’t so far down the rabbit whole by the time she’s married she already k owes everything about what she likes. Disagree if you want but I’d like to find that out with her.

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Anonymous 2w

These comments are creepy. Purity culture is pedophile culture. Good men understand that sex is normal and healthy, and they don’t shame women for having sex. They also dont prey on women who are too inexperienced to know how to set boundaries. Any man—and i mean ANY man—that thinks virgins are “honorable” or “self-controlled” or “respectful of their body” is a creep, too dumb or too creepy to try and understand how purity culture hurts women and children.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

are you virgin yourself and about the control it's very hard trust me

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

i mean i do understand where yore coming from but some women genuinely want their first time to be special and not just give away their body and holes casually

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Wanting your first time to be special doesn’t negate what i said. Im saying its creepy to consider virginity to be a good thing, im not saying women must have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 2w

I don’t think it’s “creepy” at all to consider virginity a good thing…? It is a good thing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

well do you consider the same for a man?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

Why is it a good thing?

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