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Anyone else wonder why guys start out nice and then every conversation turns sexual so fast and that’s the only thing you want to talk about. Like we are literally just talking, we aren’t even dating. Wtf
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Anonymous 2d

penis > brain

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Anonymous 2d

People are cooked! The thing is with everyone connected online, everything in IG and TT is hyper sexualized most people are looking for the path of least resistance. If it’s not you, they move on to whomever will indulge. You aren’t wrong to want more for yourself… everyone’s just different.. you have to find someone on the same page. Age also plays a part.. most guys 18-25 are in their sexual prime and want to hump everything moving.

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Anonymous 2d

High male sex drive makes guys turn off their brain

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Anonymous 2d

I totally get that experience

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Anonymous 2d

Does taking about scratching my balls count as sexual?

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Anonymous 2d

Men are just trying to see what’s on the table. Nothing wrong with it. If not interested just say so.

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Anonymous 2d

I think you maybe talking about a certain type of guy and not guys in general. There’s probably way more men who are too insecure to even bring up the topic. Where you’re meeting these men play a factor as well. Also, what kind of signals are you putting out there. Are you dressed provocatively? If every man that approaches you talks about sex within 5 minutes means you must be extremely attractive. Take some of it as a compliment.

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Anonymous 2d

We need the nut.

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Anonymous 2d

Damn kinda messed up lady’s can be the same way

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Fr

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Anonymous replying to -> whydouneed2know 2d

let’s be so fr rn

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

I em for real

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Anonymous replying to -> whydouneed2know 2d

you should know by now that guys tend to be more hypersexual than women. there are so manny studies on this but this should also just be common sense. men and women are not exactly equal in that realm.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2d

What #4 said 👍🏾

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2d

Thank you #7 🙏🏽

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Anonymous replying to -> whydouneed2know 2d

Women are biologically less hyper sexual than men it’s called testosterone men just have more of it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

No

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 2d

The thing is they might be but not 5 minutes in, like you guys should have standards for your self. Whoring yourself out on the daily.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 2d

Let’s be honest ong, she’s probably talking to foreigners online. Yknow the ones known for sa-ing women and popping out 10 kids without self control or responsibility. Also women have more sexual partners on average these days, so your cherry picked reality is a delusional fallacy.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

no actually she’s probably talking about guys in her age range she meets who she thinks are chill and nice and then quickly reveal their true intentions. as she literally said. this is so common and i have run into countless dudes like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

one of the most paranoid and delusional things I've ever read on here. you need to step away from the internet

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 1d

“No actually” you’re an idiot if you can’t see people’s intentions and are just wanting to see something that isn’t there. Maybe talk to them face to face more about something real and you’ll learn who they are, but foreign freak really didn’t like that one lol. Lifted the veil a little too much on their culture

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

My comment may not be popular, but you can’t say it’s not true.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 1d

It’s not true whatsoever. Your comment seems to be a reflection of yourself. “Take it as a compliment” my azz. You are literally the embodiment of what OP is taking about

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