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I started dating my boyfriend in November of 2022, we started to break up in early January because of different values, lack of effort, and compatibility problems, we tried to make it work but officially broke up tonight, I feel empty like half of me died
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Anonymous 5w

been there. actually i’m still there. what you do now is focus on yourself. you pour into yourself, you feel out all your emotions. it’s a process. but have a balance. still get yourself up and at least do one thing that makes you feel good. it could be anything. journal, color, draw. this is the time where you have to rebuild yourself. it’s not easy and it’s not gonna happen overnight, but you have to put in the effort. you have to understand that life goes on. wish u the best <3

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Anonymous 5w

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Anonymous 5w

Start your life again. You go to work, you do hobbies, meet with friends. Put off dating for a little while. You distract when in your head. It’s okay to keep some things that have to do with them but it’s best to remove photos of y’all endless they are in a group setting. Be patient with yourself it’s up and down rollercoaster

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Anonymous 5w

Accept that there’s nothing much else you could have done in the first place.

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Anonymous 5w

I guess the question is what do I do now

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Anonymous 5w

7 months post break up, it gets better in a different way. Still struggling by the daily and everyday but at least now I can do some stuff for myself

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Anonymous 5w

Bro made it out. You sound miserable. “Started to breakup” lmfao

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Anonymous 5w

i never thought i’d find someone after my ex fiancé. i’m in a relationship now with a new man, he’s so kind and he’s never laid a finger on me. completely different from my ex in every way i thought i was never enough for. i wanted to go back to my ex so bad but look what happened when waited. i promise you even tho it doesn’t seem like it now it will get better girl, if you need anything i’m a dm away

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Anonymous 5w

Hi OP, when you need people, the world controls you. Sometimes in life you have to do things alone to achieve life goals or principles and being fine with that will keep scams and manipulation working on you because it preys people needing others. Just know that in the end the only thing that matters is virtue and virtue alone as the sole motivation that is outside of this world so it can’t hold your emotions hostage. Be happy and free :) - Master Yoda.

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 5w

🤓 save that essay for your thesis, Socrates.

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