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I’m a guy who really wants a relationship but just hates the idea of sex with any gender I’m not sexually attracted to anyone or thing but at the same time really want a family and kids how cooked am I and is there anyone else like this or am I alone
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Anonymous 19h

I recommend looking for other Asexual people. Lots of people want family but not sex. You’re totally ok

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Anonymous 18h

It’s okay, I promise there are other like you. You’re not alone

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Anonymous 17h

Me and my gf haven’t had sex all year and we are both heterosexual and we still love eachother

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Anonymous 16h

UR NEVER ALONE!!!!

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Anonymous 17h

I’ve never felt more seen, dm me

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Anonymous 13h

Your type is rare

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Anonymous 9h

I’m leaning that way too honestly, I’ve grown very impartial on the idea of sex in general, society makes it seem like you’re wrong if you are like that but that’s stupid, you’ll find someone eventually who has similar feelings I’m sure

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Anonymous 17h

Bruh, that sounds like a regular marriage. You just to have sex a few times to knock her up. Once the kids are in, sexless marriage begins 😝. Let her have a side piece.

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Anonymous 16h

Hm I’ve never heard of someone feeling that way, I hope you find someone that feels the same way man! You’re definitely not alone.

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Anonymous 8h

I’m similar. Asexual but not sex repulsed. I was upfront about it with my bf before we started dating. We’ve been together 2 years and do stuff only every few months (I’m rarely interested and often have pain associated with doing anything) and he’s fine. He has 2 hands and can use them if the feeling strikes him. Hes always very communicative if he does though, not that I usually want or need that info.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

Did you guys discuss this or did it just naturally happen

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 15h

Thanks bro

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

similarly. im a guy and my gf and i talked it over and agreed to live a celibate relationship together. this was mainly driven by our religion. i think the difference is that we openly acknowledge that we want each other and avoid putting ourselves in positions to engage sexually.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Just happens, we aren’t opposed to having sex or physical touch. I kissed her this morning we just don’t feel like it and sometimes I’ll want to and she doesn’t and other times she’ll want to but I don’t and that’s okay

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 12h

It honestly sucks

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