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is there a reason guys don't want to talk to me? f20 and I'm fairly shy I just find men don't initiate much
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Anonymous 17h

a lot of times, introverts can come across as standoffish, even if you don't mean it that way at all.

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Anonymous 16h

If u show a lil interest (doesn’t have to be a lot) more guys will interact trust

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Anonymous 15h

from how i see it a lot of people our age have untreated social anxiety and potentially agoraphobia. part of this is because of covid, and part of it is because (not all but a sizable portion of) gen x parents would straight up bully, neglect, and abuse their children and so now a non-insignificant amount of gen z is desperate for connection but hates making the first move both romantically and platonically.

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Anonymous 16h

Bcus society has changed why would a guy walk up to a girl and then get flamed in multiple group chats 5 minutes after

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Anonymous 15h

Society of men approaching women and people being more interested in social media on their phones

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Anonymous 12h

Well you see I’m afraid of being seen as a creep so even if I’m head over heels for you I will go out of my way to avoid letting you know that

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

that happens to you, specifically

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Anonymous 15h

I'm actually a distance runner but nice try momma's boy

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

if he's not being a creep he won't be

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 12h

it's just so sad tho...cause I don't want his friends to make fun of me so I don't approach first and I'm just shy. I like when I know if a guy is interested and lets me know lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

Unfortunately other girls apparently disagree and will destroy our lives over it, so realistically it’s probably best for you to make the first small moves and let the guy make the first big moves.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5h

well I hope you find a guy who’ll make the first move for you

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