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I want to lose weight before I get back into dating
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Anonymous 2w

Keto diet trust. I’ve lost 16 pounds since Jan 1st

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Anonymous 2w

So you think you need to look better to be more deserving of love? Not a good road to go down, coming from someone who has lifted for 4-5 years.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I think feeling comfortable in my body at a healthy weight will boost my confidence when dating. Losing weight is hard. It takes commitment, discipline, sacrifice, compromise, grace and confidence. All things of which a relationship requires. I want to build these traits then apply them to the dating scene. Also I wanna be strong. I feel weak physically and the gym helps change that. Looking good is a bonus.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah I totally get that and your reasoning is very fair. You seem very committed to improving yourself rather than for the eyes of others so you got my support!

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