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Is it normal to wish i was a boy but also be happy being a girl? I dont have any urge to identify as a boy but also wish i could snap my fingers and become one right now
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Anonymous 4w

I feel the same way. Like female is more right, I’m more a woman than anything else, but sometimes it’s like, huh. Why can’t I have that? Why do they get something I don’t? I don’t think transitioning would make me any happier. I think, technically, I’m probably some level of genderfluid or nonbinary, but I’m usually towards that fem end of the spectrum so I just don’t care. I’m too laze for pronouns and explanations. I already dress butch so I get they/themmed half the time and I don’t mind

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Anonymous 4w

I think it is. Born female, currently female with no plans to change. Sometimes I wish I was male. It would solve so many of my issues, feeling unsafe, the types of abuse I’ve been privy to from previous bf, suffering every day nonstop from repro disorders, pink tax, being looked down upon by male peers in a male dominated field etc etc etc. it would be so much easier as a man. But I would never transition or anything.

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Anonymous 4w

🏳️‍⚧️ welcome brother

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Anonymous 4w

No

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Anonymous 4w

Therapy. All of you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I dont think im trans lol im happy being a girl and im glad i was born female, but sometimes i just think about what my life would be like as a boy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I'm trans and glad I was born female but tbh that comment was more of a test. If you were a trans guy you would probably have felt some affirmation from it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Nah, nothing. I just think itd be awesome to experience life as a man but i still want to live as a woman. Like being able to shapeshift between a male and female body sounds amazing. Its not about wanting to be masculine, though. Its tough to explain

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

is it just because society is sexist and horrible to women? bc that would be pretty understandable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

I mean thats def part of it that i was thinking about. But maybe its also just curiosity about what life would be like as a man? I dunno

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

to your original question, I think some curiosity is 100% normal

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 4w

this is why I thought I was trans ftm for like 6 years only to realize nope I just didn’t feel like I could be taken seriously as a woman and I just needed to work on my self esteem

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

It, but it’s not *right*. Idk. I also think that ideally I would just shapeshift. It would make things easier.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 4w

I think this really described exactly how i feel. The only difference is i am feminine and prefer being referred to and perceived as feminine. I also remember being weirdly happy when people would refer to me by he/him online though lol. But being able to shapeshift without the work of transitioning would be cool.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Sure if you’re paying 🙄

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