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How can I tell if he’s in love with me?
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Anonymous 4w

i’ve been w my bf for 2 years. i realized my bf was in love with me when i saw how selfless he was with his energy. he doesn't just love me in a general way, but he loves me in the specific ways he’s learned that make me feel most cherished. his actions show that he appreciates the unique details of who i am. that’s how i knew. also if he’s dependable!!

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Anonymous 4w

Who sends the first text in the mornings? How quick is he to respond?

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Anonymous 4w

I would never ask someone if they love me. I would tell them I loved them only if I genuinely meant it. Whatever they say after will be what you’re looking for one way or another.

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Anonymous 4w

If he shows it in a way that makes you feel it then it’s a great start. If he doesn’t then you need to tell him what fills your emotional needs. Asking him helps what his needs are is a good way to start the conversation if you’re struggling to find a way to bring it up

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Anonymous 4w

He pees on it

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

He’s never said it but by his actions it seems like he is. I don’t want to assume or be delusional though.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I would just straight up ask. Don’t be upset if the answer isn’t what you want to hear sometimes it takes time for people to

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

I like that

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