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I need help I need to figure out how to confront my gf abt her gay bestie cause sometimes it feels she wants to be with him more than me and it’s really bugging me so idk what to do
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Anonymous 2d

As a gay bestie myself. I wouldn’t want to take away your gf from you. If you communicate that with her and how you want to spend time with her. Then she will most definitely understand. Given I don’t know her nor her bestie so just use your best judgement. 🥰

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Anonymous 2d

3 some?

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Anonymous 2d

fuck that bro leave that bitch

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

You weird

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Well I did bring it up and she is aware of my feelings towards him it’s just frustrated me cause yes I get they knew eachother before me but it definitely clear she prioritize hanging out with him than even saying high to me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Wdym feelings towards him? As in you don’t like him? And I’ve never been in a relationship but I do understand that you have communicated your feelings towards the situation and there needs to compromise which I’m guessing she isn’t doing. I am truly sorry about your situation, from my perspective and from my situation I’ve learned that yes though she may be my best friend, my sister even. I need to respect that she has a relationship with her bf.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I just wish she would think of it like that but I don’t see it as a gay bestie I see it as another guy with her and I’m at the point where I’m going crazy over it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

I understand your hesitation with a gay guy. Some straight guys “ act gay” to get with a girl and therefore some straight men see it as “ oh a ‘gay’ guy trynna get with my girl” all I can say is if he is truly gay then he is of no harm. I wish I had the answer for you but situations like this are a little more complex. As you could be telling me how you’re truly feeling ( which is valid) but there’s also 2 sides of one story to truly understand the situation. 🥺

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

I get that but it’s her not doing anything to address the situation is what makes me crazy like she asked me but she doesn’t act like where a thing it’s almost she’s embarrassed by me in public

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2d

Little do yk this bro right here jus solidifying ur girl as his right now

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Okay, then it’s your girlfriend and not her friend. You must speak with her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 1d

Shut up you fuckin dweeb

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

If you lonely and projecting then say that

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

ain’t nobody lonely over here that bitch valuin another dude over him, she’s cooked.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 1d

Love how you calling her a bitch. Really shows how your mother was treated at home

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