Anonymous #2 3w

definitely true; just gotta relearn that its fine being by myself 😤🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous OP 2w

Why didn't you learn upfront it's always ok to be by yourself

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Anonymous #1 2w

notice how i said RElearn

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Anonymous OP 2w

Why though? That's something that shouldn't be relearned. I could see if you were married actually out of the game for a long time

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Anonymous OP 2w

4 yrs in a relationship at your age isn't a long time. How could being away from the game put you in a mindset where you think being alone isn't ok?

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Anonymous #1 2w

dude literally what, its almost like i was and still am growing up. idk how u expect literal teenagers to be so sure of themselves. its almost like everyones different and can become different while in a relationship 🤯

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Anonymous #1 2w

i think your misunderstanding what i said; i never said nor think being alone ISNT ok, it was more so coming from an aspect that its way lonelier than i thought itd be also i wrote this the day of a 4year breakup so cut me some slack damn

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Anonymous OP 2w

I tried. I already knew you were going to get defensive talking shit to me. When I just asked you a question. I knew I should've skipped asking you any fucking thing

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Anonymous #1 2w

idk why YOUR getting defensive , literally read my latest reply, i think your misunderstanding or misinterpreting what i said

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Anonymous OP 2w

lmao not them deleting there comments after a simple back and forth 🤣

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Anonymous #1 2w

4 years in a relationship is a decent amount of time. No clue what you’re talking about.

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Anonymous #4 2w

ive definitely come down from the hysterics of when i originally posted this. but part of it was that we had discussed breaking up before but i was always convinced not to; and since we started dating in HS all our friends and even my friends parents thought we wld get married; and when ppl wld bring that up i would feel more anxious/scared than excited and it got to a point where i felt like i was doing a disservice to him and myself; and he was great, so he DESERVES someone whos all in 100%

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Anonymous #4 2w

theres obviously other stuff too but i dont want it all spewed on sidechat lmao; i org. posted this more for validation if i was crazy or if there was some profound answer someone could give me

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Anonymous OP 2w

Well we can’t really tell for sure since we don’t have the important details. Unless you DM someone, we wouldn’t know.

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Anonymous #4 2w

i wldnt say thats necessarily true; i get context is important but people who’ve been through a long term break up before could still provide advice or relation w/o knowing the full story (imo)

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Anonymous OP 2w

They may be able to relate, but only to the “long-term aspect” that’s it. No one can provide genuine and effective advice without knowing the full context. If you wanted solutions, maybe seek a ‘couples therapist’. If not, isn’t this then just gossip?

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Anonymous #4 2w

I wouldnt say so; gossip has a negative connotation and im not coming on here bashing my ex to high heavens; i was simply looking for people who could maybe relate; and genuine/effective advice is pretty subhective; like #2 response was perfectly fine

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