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Do guys actually like it when a girl makes the first move?
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Anonymous 1d

Confidence is attractive

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Anonymous 1d

Yea because it sets you different from others

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Anonymous 22h

if they think you're attractive they do.

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Anonymous 1d

Yeah but personally I thought she’d continue to make moves after that and when she didn’t I got bored and it ended

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Anonymous 1d

A guy might not know who she feels until a few dates in. If she made the first move, I would feel swept off my feet!

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Anonymous 1d

It’s a breath of fresh air for me, it’s happened a few times but in the grand scheme, it’s so rare that it’s like “wow!” Definitely nice and I respect the hell out of it.

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Anonymous 1d

Doesn’t change what I think of them, maybe respect for knowing what they like

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 17h

Heavy on if they find you attractive. I recently approached this guy at a party and asked for his insta and i texted first and everything. Never heard back from him...

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 17h

tbf that happens all the time to people regardless of gender. there's no guaranteed way to get a text back

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14h

and what exactly do you think of them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 14h

Well yah. It's just i find it ironic bc it has happened often yet men claim to love girls who approach first. Or perhaps I just pick the bad ones or i approach the wrong way🤷🏽‍♀️

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 14h

They love the approach, but unfortunately there’s no guarantee they’ll love the girl herself. :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 13h

Whatever I think about them, but them approaching a guy is just like a guy approaching a girl, respect for knowing what you like and taking initiative

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