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How does one get over the fear of rejection
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Anonymous 4w

Rejection therapy, as questions you’ll know people will say no to. Do it often, do it as much as you can, do it with strangers ideally. Eventually you can level it up with confidence by respectfully asking our girls above your league. It’s a win win situation. If she says no, you move on to the next out of your league, if she says yes then like Yay

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Anonymous 4w

Controlled existentialism

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Anonymous 4w

Being tired of being scared to do anything and never getting anything because you're too scared to ask

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Anonymous 3w

Force yourself. Literally go robot mode, and force yourself to ask or do something that scares you BECAUSE it scares you. That’s what worked best for me.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Thank you there is this girl I work with that I like I just don’t want it to be awkward if the feeling isnt mutual

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

It’ll only be awkward if you make it awkward. I’ve asked out coworkers or even found them on dating apps, if your energy doesn’t change after you confess your feelings and they turn you down then you should be fine. But if you’re confident or have a grip on your emotions then it’s better to let this burn inside you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

Don’t have much confidence. Always had my flaws pointed out and was bullied so is hard to find it but I’ve been working on it

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