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Married people with kids and careers find time to have affairs. Don’t let a single person tell you they are too busy for you. Leading people on for attention is so lame. Let’s leave that in 2025.
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Anonymous 3w

i mean i think it’s definitely possible to be too busy for a relationship but yeah you should just be honest and don’t start something you don’t have time for

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Anonymous 3w

Where’s the question

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Anonymous 3w

newsflash: single people don’t need kids to be busy. grow tf up.

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Anonymous 3w

Okay but did they ACTUALLY lead you on or did you interpret basic human kindness/decency as romantic intent

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Anonymous 3w

1000%

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

It happens in a lot of ways. I’m specifically thinking about people on dating apps and flirtatious people in general. A lot of people are way too comfortable using others to feel good about themselves. Rosters are disgusting.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

The amount of shitass dudes that have accused me of “leading them on” when all i did was be nice to them a few times is unreal. All became super shitty/abusive too. Unless the person is clearly romancing you im wary of people that say they “lead you on”

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 3w

Yup, you’re the problem. All men are abusive or shitty??? Who do you think you are? I don’t have to prove anything to you. Idk why you are so bitter but it’s not my problem. If you have never seen a man or a woman use someone for validation/attention, you’ve lived a privileged life.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

Oh okay so youre exactly the shitass i was describing. Damn

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

I honestly hope that gets better for you. You sound fucking miserable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Valid

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Anonymous 3w

lmao use your brain, saying “respectfully” doesn’t omit the obvious and intentional disrespect you proceeded with. and it sounds like you’re coming from a hurt place, it’s unfortunate that you’ve lived through so many superficial relationships that you’ve concluded the fault lies with all single people. i suggest you look within. get well soon

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

You said “newsflash grow tf up” and now you want to act like you have the moral high ground. You are projecting sweetheart. If my original post makes you that uncomfortable, maybe you are the one with things to work on. You want to be rude and expect respect. Grow up, you’re completely entitled.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

again with the projection, “sweetheart.” i never “demanded” respect from you, nor do i crave it like you seem to. your original post doesn’t make me feel uncomfortable, if anything, probably pity for you. the maturity in my response has clearly triggered you. sad that your experiences have blinded you to reality.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Okay dude.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

i can’t roll my eyes hard enough when i say this.. goodbye and good riddance.✌️👋

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

no one cares. play the victim if you want. if you didn’t come with the energy you did, i wouldn’t have responded like i did. I apologize for offending you. However, this was my post, and not everything is about you. Nor does making accusations about someone anonymously make you a bigger or better person.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

omg YAWN.. i’m growing tired of interacting with your obsolete brain cells. you may have freedom of speech, but you don’t have freedom from consequences of said speech. so if you can’t handle it, which it seems you cannot, then try journaling in a damn notebook. “your” post, lol. it’s public domain idiot.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

lol

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