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I am falling for this guy but that scares me because I have been hurt really bad in my past and I am scared that I am going to hurt him or do something stupid to lose him. If there is anyone else who has these fears/anxiety, what do you do to combat them?

Anonymous 1d

Hurt people hurt people

Anonymous 1d

First off, I am so sorry you're going through this. I know it's a difficult place to be in, and I'm also sorry you've been hurt a lot in the past because that's hard too. In my opinion, the hard thing about falling for someone is the potential to be hurt or things to go wrong, and I think it's just a part of it. You're trusting someone with a sensitive part of yourself and have no idea what'll happen. But if you like him, I think you may regret wondering what if you never find out

Anonymous 23h

I believe that bravery is the opposite of anxiety and hope is the opposite of oppression. Best of luck