
At meet my hubs when I was 21 and he was 19. We were together 3years before marriage we knew by month seven. We reaching our 5 yr soon. Honestly wait till you lived together and had to deal with everything alone. There is no rush to get married. It really doesn’t change much. It helped my fasfa in college which was nice plus.
Tell your bf to let things flow naturally and organically rather than just planning out the age in which y’all will get married. You both need to be in agreement and be simpatico with each other before deciding when marriage will occur IF it even does. Get to know each other deeply first.