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Ask Anything 18h

can girls and guys just be friends?

Anonymous 18h

If you’re a mature person yes

Anonymous 15h

as a lesbian yes. this question has always been weird to me because i’m friends with men and women and don’t feel attraction just because of their gender?

Anonymous 15h

Most of my close friends at college are guys, I’m a girl. Nothing weird has ever come of it, we didn’t choose friends based on gender

Anonymous 17h

Yes especially if you’re not attracted to them

Anonymous 18h

Yes I have a few long term female friends where there is no sense it will get sexual. But also two long term female friends have become fwbs.

Anonymous 18h

yeah

Anonymous 18h

Yes

Anonymous 17h

It has to be the guys choice for it to stay platonic or a situation where there would be social consequences if it veered from the friendship

Anonymous 16h

Yes, but being too close is forbidden in the book of romance 😂

Anonymous 12h

Yes. I may be an anomaly but as a lesbian woman my best friend is my first bf ever that lasted like 3 months- we ended up going to college at the same place and we’ve been best friends since

Anonymous 12h

Pulling my binoculars out to look for Harry and sally

Anonymous 10h

In my experience, extremely rarely and never best friends. For almost two decades every single guy friend I’ve ever had has confessed his feelings or faded away, with this year being the only exception and even then only with guys that I have to actively keep at a distance. I’ve noticed that guys specifically struggle to have girls as just friends much more frequently than women do to men.

Anonymous 8h

Nah, cause of em always messes it up

Anonymous 7h

yes

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Anonymous 12h

If it’s 2 couples yes also ik this is harsh but if the girl is ugly then yea (not to be rude)

Anonymous 18h

Yea but there’s usually tension especially if you get along really well. Has always happened to me and the women I’ve been close friends with. Ended up doing things with 2 of them as well at one point… still kept talking to them and hanging out tho 😊

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Anonymous 17h

No, girls will always want that D. It will causes issues. They might not show it but they secretly want it.

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Anonymous

#8 17h

That’s untrue what if the guy is ugly af

Anonymous

#7 17h

They wouldn’t be friends then.

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Anonymous

#8 17h

That’s not true girls are friends with men they don’t find attractive (I know some men aren’t friends with ugly women)

Anonymous

#4 16h

If we’re being honest mature people just hide it better

Anonymous

#7 16h

They secretly getting that D.

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Anonymous

#8 16h

From someone else

Anonymous

#1 15h

So you should go read some books and get off the internet so you don’t become the worst incel chud to ever exist

Anonymous

#12 15h

Just my experience. Sorry if yours is different 😭

Anonymous

#1 15h

My b I came off too strong you prolly just haven’t met the right genuine people

Anonymous

#12 14h

I mean I did they’re older and stuff they’re just horny 😭

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Anonymous

#1 14h

Hide what better? If you’re a mature person then you’ll be able to befriend people of the sex you’re attracted to without viewing them as a sex object

Anonymous

#4 14h

It’s uhh the reverse and I get hit on a lot 😅

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Anonymous

#1 14h

Alright.. again a mature person would be able to see the sex they’re attracted to as more than just options for dating/sex, I have plenty of male and female friends who I just see as friends and nothing more

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Anonymous

#11 12h

Yes but if they were drunk after a party and u were drunk they would totally do it if u proposed😂

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Anonymous

l..__..l 12h

I promise you they would not. I would not. They are like brothers to me

Anonymous

#11 9h

Send them a message and ask them

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Anonymous

#17 9h

Do you really think men just want to bang any woman they interact with? Because that’s kinda weird to think ngl

Anonymous

#11 8h

The majority of single men would sleep with most women they found attractive if given the opportunity. I’d bet good money that if you sent your guy friends a text asking them to come hook up, that at least one of them would say yes

Anonymous

l..__..l 8h

yo stop doing that K2 and nitrous shits frying your brain

Anonymous

#17 8h

So, I know these people better than you do. I guarantee that they would block me and be wildly uncomfortable if I did that, so I am not going to do that to people I consider family.

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Anonymous

#11 8h

Nah just u must not be very attractive not to be rude(all my friends and myself included our friends that are girls that we don’t want to sleep with just are mid lol trust me we talk about trying to get with our friends that our girls 😂

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Anonymous

#18 8h

I’m a straight a student who plays 3 sports and multiple clubs with an internship with Dow jones 😂💪💪

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Anonymous

l..__..l 8h

Good! I’d rather be considered unattractive than have people I consider siblings want to sleep with me!

Anonymous

l..__..l 8h

wow, an internship with Mr. Jones himself? you must be crazy smart

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Anonymous

#2 8h

Ur an idiot just put the fries in the bag 😂

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