Been with my gf for two years and it still feels fresh! Go on dates, don’t fall into the habit of just watching tv every night, do activities, make crafts, read books, go on walks. Personally, relationships get stagnant when you have set routines, you get too comfortable and don’t do the acts of affection that made it feel so fresh before.

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here’s what ill say. I was in a relationship for a year, and I didn’t lose the spark for most of it. At the same time, I was in a 3 year long relationship on and off where it felt like the spark came and went. the “spark” is something both people have to work actively on keeping alive. when people get comfortable, they forget it’s still important to show up for your partner. when u show up, it stays alive.

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