baby stay away from porn rotted men

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It became a hypnotically induced behavior that was pushed on the entire generation. If I may, the phrases “I wish you would” or “I’m scarred that if you keep watching/doing xyz” Tend to kick men into “wish granting mode” Do not use this knowledge for evil. If it’s a legitimate concern he should stop. You can’t just say you’re scared of everything because he might be like “well that’s extremely irrational.”

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Look. Unpopular opinion but: if he likes porn, and you don’t like porn, find someone else. Both my partner and myself enjoy it. Not together, mind you, since we like different things. This is a big compatibility issue, especially if you are trying to monitor/decide what someone else is free to watch. You don’t like it, that’s fine! He likes it, also fine! It’s a problem for one of you, not fine anymore.

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it’s absolutely not too much to ask him to stop, it’s a basic boundary and respect. he’s clearly not respecting you—that is NOT okay.

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Porn gives you brain damage you should tell him that and if he doesn’t stop watching, leave him

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Are you going to have sex in place of the porn then

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YES

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