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Serious: How would you feel if someone said that they would end their life because they didn’t get to achieve their dreams?
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Anonymous 18h

No judgement because I get it. What isn’t a big deal to some might be a big deal to others, if the pain they’re feeling is that immense then I don’t blame them for wanting that.

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Anonymous 15h

I’d feel terrible that our society has conditioned them to believe that their worth isn’t intrinsic and is instead something that has to be earned

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Anonymous 19h

In the nicest way, judging them so hard core. It’s so incredibly rare for someone to actually achieve their fullest dreams. To think you’re somehow the exception and that you’re the only one suffering to the point it’s time to leave the earth is just asinine. Get some therapy like the rest of us

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Anonymous 14h

I would feel very empathetic because I’m in the same boat, as someone with depression and suicidal ideation. I haven’t achieved anything either and it makes me want to die sometimes too

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Anonymous 19h

bad for them, I guess

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

What if they can’t afford therapy?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

There’s free crisis centers

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

No anywhere where they live. In a podunk town.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

It’s a red state 😑

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

So is mine? I don’t even live in town limits. County department has a free mental health crisis team and there’s 4 centers within driving distance. Starting to see why your dreams failed. You put no effort into them and gave up and the first hurdle

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

Well there they can’t drive! The county doesn’t even have 1 center let alone 4. They tried to get someone to take them but no one wanted to do it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

I am trying not get help for my friend not me 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

Then use online and call centers that are FREE. There’s so much access if you just look

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

I don’t even have my license yet so I would take them but I can’t

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

They DIDNT GET HELP THAT THEY NEEDED! ONE OF THE PLACES TOLD THEM THAT THEY JUST NEEDED THERAPY AND HUNG UP!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

YOU THINK THAT THEY DIDNT TRY THAT FIRST! THEY TRIED THAT IT DIDNT HELP AT ALL!! Some of yall need to be more compassionate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

THEN USE A DIFFERENT ONE. CALL BACK. You aren’t magically going to be fixed by someone else. YOU have to work towards getting better too. YOU have to make effort. You only get out of life what you put into it. And if you put nothing into it after the first setback then you get nothing out of it. You keep pushing forward. But that’s not something you can teach so I guess the convo is over. Good luck champ

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 18h

ITS NOT EVEN ME ITS MY FRIEND! IM SAYING THAT THEY HAVE TRIED MANY OPTIONS AND HASN’T BEEN WORKING! HAVE A GREAT DAY!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 15h

And I’d probably urge them to spend a lot of time walking in nature. Go do real human shit

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