Anonymous #2 2w

May I ask why?

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Anonymous #1 2w

Absolutely, it’s not about gender that makes it odd, but the outfit! I always thought that since men never wore it, all of these kinds of clothes were ugly on all men-presenting people! But now I get that it’s just masculinity culture and traditionalism and toxic masculinity lol, it’s mindset, not facts!

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Anonymous OP 2w

I hope I understand it correctly

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Anonymous OP 2w

You did. I view it similarly to women wearing masculine clothes. A good fit is a good fit. Also there’s many different types of beauty and they don’t always correlate with biological sex. Femininity and masculinity are both about presentation. A woman can be attractive in a masculine way and a man can be attractive in a feminine way

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Anonymous #3 2w

Thank you for your input sweetie ☺️

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Anonymous #4 2w

I see, but is that all?

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Anonymous #1 2w

That makes sense

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Anonymous OP 2w

yeah, i think anyone can wear whatever they want, i don’t think it’s clothes that dictate if you’re attractive tho, i think if you’re attractive attractive yk

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Anonymous #4 2w

Uh not really, I think you just have to find the style that you like and that fits you. Sure you can dress for others, but don’t you mostly dress for yourself?

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Anonymous OP 2w

what? i’m confused what ur talking about i think everyone can wear whatever they want, yeah i dress for myself.

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Anonymous #4 2w

Ok, my post was meaning to say does my conception of men should never wear feminine clothes match with what women think? Because I kinda need my friends to tell me what’s good on me and what isnt(they’re good with fashion)

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Yesss

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I’m trying my goth andro look

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You seem like we’re on the same page now twin

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Anonymous OP 2w

i’m so confused what you’re talking about i feel like i was always on the right page and u were confused, i think women don’t care but also if a woman is attracted to masc guys she probably won’t be attracted to a guy dressing feminine but its all preference yk like i can’t be like all women like it or no women do theres plenty of ppl who like it and plenty of ppl who probably wouldn’t want to date someone like that so idk

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Anonymous #4 2w

Noooo I’m not talking about attraction, I don’t care about attraction! I just want to know I look like I ate in my fits!

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Anonymous #4 2w

I don’t care about dating and anything like that, I could care less(I’m single and proudly so!)

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Anonymous OP 2w

i think if i see a man in a slay outfit it’s a slay outfit yk, so id say yeah like anyone can appreciate a good outfit ensemble

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Anonymous #4 2w

So like can I get your opinion on mine then?(no pictures, just a list)

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Anonymous OP 2w

it’s just not attractive

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Anonymous #2 2w

Why?

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Anonymous #2 2w

What about it isn’t attractive?

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Anonymous OP 2w

they’re simply speaking for themselves not all women btw, don’t know why they said we, they probably just prefer masculinity

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Anonymous OP 2w

idk it’s just unattractive to me. i personally think a man in a dress or skirt is very unflattering

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Anonymous OP 2w

i think goth is cool, so sure if you want to give me a list

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Anonymous #2 2w

I see. I never said attractive tho, I said pretty. There’s a big difference. One is wanting to look good for someone else, the other is looking hot for yourself! Is that how you think of femboys too? Like all men look bad in skirts?

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Anonymous #3 2w

Turns out, he just wants to steal my booty lol

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Anonymous #4 2w

Thx bestie! So far from thrifting I’ve got some nice boots, I am jonesing for a black leather jacket and some nice, baggy slacks(that may or may not be able to highlight my gym progress tehe), but that’s all I can think of for overtly unique goth-wear! Can you give me any advice??

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Anonymous #6 2w

OFC, hot as fuckkkkkk

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Anonymous OP 2w

that seems great, but it doesn’t seem feminine to me i feel like all the clothes you listed are very androgynous

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Anonymous #4 2w

Yes, that’s what I’m trying for, because I am part of the IBTC

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Anonymous OP 2w

The itty bitty titty committee. This is why I need some inspiration for flat chested feminine goth outfits(can’t find much on Pinterest tho)

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