It’s your given body for this once chance at life so might as well accept and embrace it. You can still highlight your attributes through good hygiene, decent fashion, and continually improving on your personality. Gym also enhances your overall looks so always good to keep that habit. Besides that, it comes down to actually putting in effort with girls, which means… actually talking to them. Rejection is no big deal, it’s ok, keep trying and you’ll get a little better every time

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it's normally about the way people approach women, the problem with most "ugly" guys is they have low self confidence and approach women with that same low self esteem and it can often come off as creepy. If you are taking care of your image and hygiene then just work on your confidence as a person, it radiates energy that becomes more attractive

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this is projection in that men are socialized to be harsh towards women’s body but it’s not returned, we are flexible in that you can redeem yourself with other good qualities

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Always work on physical appearance but coming from a woman if you auramax instead of obsessing over lookmaxxing it will take you a long way. There is a reason why women often obsess over fictional characters that sometimes have little human resemblance. It’s about the energy. Also get a good cologne, and just be a nice and respectful human being. Those will take you farther than you think. All that and confidence/humor

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