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I’ve never been in a relationship and one time a friend told me I just need to get into one even if it’s bad. Should I follow that advice or just let things happen
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Anonymous 3w

That’s bad advice

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Anonymous 3w

No, you should never get in a relationship just to be in one. You should do it because you want to and you are interested in the person. If that’s not the case you will be wasting your time and energy.

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Anonymous 3w

Just let it happen, i’m sure it will happen when you least expect it

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Anonymous 3w

the whole point of a relationship is to enjoy them and actually being in it, if it's bad from the start that kinda defeats the whole purpose

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Anonymous 3w

Vet the person still. My first relationship still gives me nightmares and ptsd cause I just listened to people who lived on my floor in college

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Anonymous 3w

Tell your simp friend that you need to work on yourself before working on someone else

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Anonymous 3w

that ain’t a friend

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