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Has anyone ever had their mom get jealous of them? I’m totally at a loss because what is happening? That’s my twin????
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Anonymous 1d

My mom legit got mad I got hit on in a bikini once shit was sad

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Anonymous 1d

Internalised misogyny tells women that their greatest competitor is always another woman, even if this woman is their own child.

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Anonymous 1d

Like idk who to talk to about this but I guess it’s a common thing but idk anyone who else has this. I just want to remedy it or figure out how I can make this stop?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

Ugh. Literally should’ve said the body is tea. I don’t get why our biggest supporters turn into our biggest haters 💔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Instead said “of course you get complimented showing off like a stripper wait till you’re my age”

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

This also happens to me. Unfortunately you kind of can’t make it stop. You can’t control her actions. You can try to have an adult conversation with her telling her these comments make you feel like shit and asking her to please knock it off—sometimes that even works! It has for me a few times! Other times it doesn’t. And if she brushes you off from there, you just have to accept that her insecurities aren’t your problem and you gotta keep kicking ass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Thank you, this actually helped a lot hearing this. How did you cope with it? We got in a fight and she basically kicked me out and I won’t go where I’m not invited so I just have to learn how to cope. She’s already blowing up my phone apologizing. It’s killing me to not take the bait.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

Honestly? I moved 7 hours away. I just couldn’t be near her anymore. I still talk to her and visit her, but living in the same house with someone like that is just so draining for you. I used to think I could act the right way to get her to not resent me, but eventually I realized there was no right way. I can’t fix her and it’s not my job to, and it’s not your job either. You just have to set boundaries and take care of yourself and hope she does the work to get better on her own.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Hugs to you, none of that sounds easy but at the same time it is much easier than watching her mental downfall. I just feel like an orphan bro 🤦‍♀️ but I know I’ll be good.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

You’ll do great, I promise. It was weird living away from her at first after having her hover my whole life, but now 4 years in I’m happier than I’ve ever been. It’ll be an adjustment but you’re gonna land on your feet and kick ass.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

This!!! It’s literally a continuous cycle that sends us back to the 1800’s 🤦‍♀️

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