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this boy SA’d me and I don’t know how to stop thinking about him. any advice?
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Anonymous 4w

I think that’s common - I’m sorry it happened ❤️

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Anonymous 4w

Am so sorry

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Anonymous 4w

I'm sorry this happened to you. Go heal from your trauma. IDK why you'd still be thinking about this person in any way

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Why would they not think about something traumatic? It’s something huge in their life that will try to shape their identity. Downplaying this kinda thing is the LAST thing you should do. Hope this helps.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

I'm not downplaying anything. How are you supposed to heal dwelling on the person that did such trauma to you? I can understand thinking about what happened. Not thinking about the person that did it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

Sometimes you have to think and feel through it to actually heal from it It took me years to heal from my trauma because I never truly felt it

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

Ok. But You don't have to think about that person that did it

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3w

People have very different trains of thoughts tbh To each their own how they process and deal with things 🤷🏻

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 3w

This person is asking for help on how to deal. And the best thing you can say is people have different trains of thought to heal. Wow ok

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