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can some guy explain why you all are so flirtatious and caring at first and suddenly pull away, and what do i do if i develop feelings then
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Anonymous 1w

Be numb and do the same or you’re gonna be in for a ride 😭😭 I’m being fr or it’ll ruin the trajectory of your life

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Anonymous 1w

Cuz puh

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Anonymous 6d

It’s called love bombing and it’s only narcissistic men

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

wdym ruin the trajectory of my life

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

They could knock u up and now you’re tied to someone who doesn’t even like u or they’ll literally drive you crazy. I’ve seen so many girls’ downfalls because of guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

i'm currently spiraling because of this man while i'm sure he's comfortably sleeping, i had dreams about him like life is so unfair and why do ya'll play with our emotions

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

My best advice is to spend time with ur friends, keep yourself busy and meet other ppl. In a few months, he won’t even matter. I’m almost 30 now and I regret how much time I wasted being sad over guys

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

well what if your away from home with no real friends and just a lonely freshman

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

All the more reason not to center your whole world around one guy. This is your sign to build your life fr go outside, join clubs, talk to people in class, explore the city, hang out by yourself. Honestly learning to be alone is one of the most healing things you can do. Sitting around thinking about him is only going to make you miserable

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 6d

Which as a man, is far too many of the men

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