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Why do men expect sex from women?

Anonymous 2w

entitlement

Anonymous 2w

I'm gonna answer this honestly and without the anti-feminist connotations these losers are putting in here: Bc we're horny as hell half the time. There was one instance I really "expected" sex, in a relationship, but she would not reciprocate. I broke off the relationship, not for that sole reason but it was part of it (partially bc she was crazy). Sex is an agreement between both parties, and it's also acceptable to end off things if, say, the guy was ready for it and she wasn't.

Anonymous 2w

In the most clear statement I can make: it’s both biological and social factors. By far the biggest one factor is social. In this case it’s a mix of misogyny in which men are raised for the start with the term “boy will be boys” Parents are more hand off with boys as they grow, they are given excuses for their behavior, they are given more lenient punishment than girls by parents, and people around boys will push them to talk about girls in which they develop misogynistic behaviors

Anonymous 2w

why do women expect sex from men?

Anonymous 2w

I don’t. Can’t answer for anyone but myself. In fact, I’d prefer not to have sex premaritally. Although, I do worry that if I find myself in a relationship I’ll be unable to resist the urge if a move is made.

Anonymous 2w

Because it's treated as a a status symbol - it's a proxy for everything else in their lives, 'success', happiness, power, gender role fulfillment etc

Anonymous 2w

Why are y'all even wording this like this? The way this question is worded sets up anyone for failure. No one should expect sex. Like why would you? Either you're getting it or you aren't. It damn sure isn't because who took who somewhere or who paid for who. That shit is just incentives on if you're going to give it away sooner. I've been reading at this entire thread. And this is why some of you people are fucked up when it comes to sex, love, marriage, dating, relationships and family

Anonymous 2w

Any mature grown person knows exactly when they want to fuck someone else. And most of the time it happens within the first 30 seconds. Your lust came first then your logic about said lust comes second

Anonymous 2w

people (including myself) reserve intimacy for a true commitment or marriage… doing it with anyone and everyone you have a relationship with devalues it 100%. It should be sacred and not used as a slap in the face on women. Again this applies to men too, but women statistically are more victim and abused in that sense (we are not biologically strong as men, and some of those men choose to use that as brute force to get what they want).

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Anonymous 2w

Why do women ask questions starting with “why” then follow it with a general statement that isn’t entirely true and put the burden of proving something that isn’t entirely true on other people?

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Anonymous 2w

Because men like sex… and sex/intimacy is what makes two ppl not just friends

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Anonymous 2w

Because is there right and the only thing that makes men happy

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Anonymous 2w

The same reason women expect attention and affection from men

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Anonymous 2w

Because that is purpose of our species

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Anonymous 2w

Because we’re pieces of shit who deserve nothing and should instead be content with dying alone Right? Does that answer make you happy?

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Anonymous 2w

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 They don't expect it. It's just given to them

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Anonymous

#2 2w

🫣

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Anonymous

#1 2w

Yup. How dare we have sexual urges that evolution has catered us to have over hundreds of millions of years How dare a social species want social interaction How dare we not wanna die alone Omg the entitlement! 😱

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Anonymous

#6 2w

Calm down

Anonymous

#7 2w

Yes

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Anonymous

#8 2w

Why? That’s what the holy and infallible women on this app say

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Anonymous

#6 2w

It was a genuine question dude. i asked because if men don’t get it when a woman isn’t ready they either push it, or they just leave. that’s just been my experience anyway. so im just wondering why.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Personally, I think sex is a reasonable line to have. At the end of the day, sometimes men and women have fundamentally different goals in a relationship, and sex is an understandable goal to have. The ones who force it are bitches though. Thligy I don't think most men are genuinely terrible, I know that enough are for it to be a large safety concern for most women, which is something a lot of men don't seem to get when women are talking about their experiences with them.

Anonymous

OP 2w

Most men expect sex because it’s an element of an intimate relationship. If you are honest from the start, then they lied and get exposed when patience runs out. If you aren’t being transparent on when/what “being ready is” they move on due to mistrust and mixed signals.

Anonymous

#10 2w

And lastly, biological: while not as big as the social factors, there is research that points towards men possibly having longer and more consistent sex drives than women. Some studies suggest it might be by a slight margin and others suggest it’s by decent sized margin. Either way this, if true, might be the reason why they’re always so horny BUT circling back to social factors, men are not told to control their sexual thoughts or life unlike women from a young age. It’s why they control

Anonymous

#6 2w

Literally zero of your points have anything to do with why men feel entitled to a woman’s body. 😐 “Social interaction” as if sex is the only way to socialize with a woman. Also gtfo with your “evolution” excuse. Why don’t you go live in a tree if you’re so eager to be primitive and animalistic? If you don’t wanna die alone, try being a good person who treats other people with dignity and respect. 🤷

Anonymous

#14 2w

that is a really good question. why do other people just expect sex in general?

Anonymous

#10 2w

this answer was very helpful, thank you. genuinely. (this isn’t sarcasm I promise).

Anonymous

#16 2w

okay whoever downvoted this wth because this is a valid take tbh. I get it, hookup culture and all but that this is completely valid for anyone who wants to wait. And it’s also true that some, if not most men (that I’ve seen) will use brute force to get what they want.

Anonymous

#17 2w

Because in life you ask questions of why people do the things that they do. If it isn’t true for you, then the question is not FOR you. If the question is not for someone else, it is not FOR them. You can choose to leave it alone and not answer. Something like this is true for others. I’ve met men who have expected sex from me when I was ready or when I didn’t want to. So I’m wondering why.

Anonymous

OP 2w

I mean if you wanted to ask accurately and phrase it “why do some men expect sex” it would help us narrow down the behavioral pattern, but asking why “men” in general expect sex, is a broad falsification of male behavior that goes back thousands of years. Most men allegedly died virgins if the geneticists are to be believed. We can’t provide an explanation for something that is false in its consistency.