
Consider it’s like… there are various levels of habit/stimulus association with “people” we organically developed. So porn isn’t going to trigger all 5 senses the way sex would or even physically touching another person would, BUT it does create an emotional spike and dopamine rush associated with the pornstar and visual stimulation with said pornstar (amateur pornstar) So is it cheating? Yeah, a tiny bit in a biochemical and perhaps a spiritual sense if you’re versed in that kind of thing.