
You should plan out what you’re going to say. Have you experimented? Do you want to? Do you plan too? Idc if a guy is bi (I’m bi) but if he had never fully explored with a guy then it would be a deal breaker. I don’t want him constantly be wondering what it would be like. He’ll either spend a lifetime wondering or he’ll start resenting me and cheat. If he’s like me and he’s bi but prefers the opposite sex & feels like gay sex is hot but not necessary for him to be fulfilled,then it’s cool idc.
There no reason to endless your trying to explore. Like threesomes, or wanting to break up. One day when someone brings it up asking then you say yeah I’m bi. If she wonders why you didn’t tell her. It’s I was with you. Being bi doesn’t change our relationship. I still wanted to be with you.
Just tell her man. If you don’t think it’s safe, don’t tell her. If she doesn’t accept you, she’s not the one. If she makes weird assumptions, be prepared to explain and correct. Make sure to tell her this isn’t you asking for an open relationship to experiment( unless it is, in which case you have to say so, very clearly)