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how do i find friends outside of college in college? i feel like i haven’t had good friends since high school, and next year, i will be older than most other people in my university
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Anonymous 17w

Maybe join clubs like running or something along that line to meet people?

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Anonymous 17w

Facebook groups and search for websites that help you find groups, esp around shared interests. Also if you can afford it going to a class like yoga pottery squash can help. Or see if there are any sports leagues

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Anonymous 17w

If you’re 21, I would recommend just meeting people at bars. That would solve your age difference problem.

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Anonymous 17w

Go to karaoke night at a bar

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Anonymous 17w

if you’re not that much older, you can still make friends w other college kids! it’s not weird i promise

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Anonymous 17w

Get a job off campus

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17w

the city i’m in doesn’t really have community like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 17w

Try looking through Facebook and see if there’s anything there. Go to dog parks if you have dogs. I know it’s really hard, but you’ll find something

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 17w

And how do I meet people at the bar? What do I even say? Hey I don’t. I have any friends can you be my friend? I don’t think that works

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 17w

Just say hi. Literally that's it.

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